exactly. thanks for understanding.

so, lets say my dad hates motorcycles. he doesnt want me to ride them. but i love them. i am quite safe with them. in fact, buy one and ride it around and everyone is amazzed, i am responsible, wear a helmet, everything. but my dad hates it. he cannot sleep at night. his life is worse off. do i say "sorry old man, i am an adult and i like dangerous motorcycles" maybe i do say that. but what if my dad really is stressed terrible and it is bad for his health? do i pride myself on my honesty then? or do i get rid of the bike and cease to be a man making my own decisions? or perhaps i could just have the bike and not tell him? would you advise me to get rid of the bike and stop doing things that bother him? what if he explicitly asked me not to tell him? should i cause stress and ill health just to be honest? or should i stop doing things that i know are not wrong?

I would say it is your life and for you to do what your conscience can handle. Whining about being ratted out on a message board is unbecoming.

for the record this actually happened in college i had a bike and my dad found out and could not sleep and he later had yet another heart attack. he asked me not to tell him about things that stress him. and it also happens that my parents have a history with drinking that terrifies them irrationally.so its like the motorcycle. its an interesting ethical dillemma but an entirely different topic thn the political correctness things i was discussing.

i am not being ratted out, i am pointing out that the two issues are not related at all. its a a non point to bring up one from the other. its what cunts do.

this coming from a guy who was sad about his grandma dying

(see that wasnt relevant?)

Time to put the bottle down my man. You have lost the ability to make sense.

That it didnt make sense was the point. You were not even talking about your grandma, an issue you said concerned you. No reaso at all for me to bring it up. Makes zero sense. I agree entirely. Finally you understand.

Can Kyle be a cunt? I thought that was reserved for a woman.
Call him a cocksucker, it is a better insult and more relevant.
Which I think he is neither and he is a good dude.

Yes. A cunt.

Also, when Kyle said "this from a guy who cares what his mom thinks", he was incorrect. I don't care what she thinks, we don't speak and she is a lunatic. I care what my dad thinks. Ad only because I care about his health.

Maybe I should hope Kyles daughter gets killed and mock him for it. Bring it up when other completely irrelevant things are being discussed. But I wouldn't, I am not a cunt.