Thanks for sounding more like an adult. Frankly, the ones that sound dumb and confused are the grown-ups that are following 17 yr olds college choices like they're following Bin Laden. That's pretty pathetic to sit at your keyboard (as an adult) and cast judgement and opinions on young people that you have no clue of their situations or circumstances. Especially, when you've probably never played a sport, received this much attention at their age, or was never highly sort after by D1 schools with slick-talking coaches that you watched walk NFL sidelines and coach some of your favorites players on Sundays. Look in the mirror, grown-up.