hmm. i wonder why it happens then. like i said, if you are the sort of person that abuses other folks, youa re already unhappy. you wish you were not that sort of person. so if a random assuhole comes out of nowhere and beats you up, that sucks, but the odds are that person hates himself and you dont really have to wish bad things on that person because he already so unhappy he is going around beating everyone up. everyone wants to be be happy and calm and well adjusted. the murderer does not want to be a murderer but he is a broken person. but as far as the universe equalizing things, like if you kidnap a kid, t eventually comes back to you somehow, obviously that is childish nonsense and you should feel shame for believing it.