My father's funeral is today......

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  1. cajdav1

    cajdav1 Soldiers are real hero's

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    ....and I will be giving his eulogy since because of sports & business I was kind of the closest too him of the 5 children.

    I'm posting this hear because this forum is kind of like a family to me, I've used this forum to keep me distracted when going through some tough times and to help celebrate the good times (especially LSU football & baseball)

    Anyway IMO my father was a great man who taught me darn near everything I know about sports by the time I was 10. He was actually a Tulane fan who also liked LSU when they weren't playing the Greenies. (My mother had already brainwashed me into being a Tiger by the time I was 3 as I already knew the words to Hey Fighting Tigers by then.)

    Dad was a president of a few banks for about 20 years & then became operations manager & eventually CEO of Ruth's Chris Steak House. He grew Ruth's Chris from 5 units to about 60 by the time he retired making it the largest upscale restaurant franchise in the world.

    He was a tremendous judge of talent, personalities, etc as he had to choose who to sell franchises to. He of course had to also hire corporate staff along with managers & evidently did a fabulous job.

    He always stayed humble and had a million close friends and business associates. Everywhere us kids went we met people who loved our father.

    My whole sports persona is based on the things he taught me from a young age. Always be respectful, enjoy the game, keep an open mind, know the rules, etc.

    I'll miss him, especially during football season when watching Saints & LSU games but also when I need advice about darn near anything. But I'll always have great memories to cherish.

    Bye Ralphie baby!
     
  2. ThePhenom74

    ThePhenom74 Founding Member

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    Sorry for your loss. Best wishes to you and your family during this difficult time.
     
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  3. MobileBengal

    MobileBengal Founding Member

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    Losing a parent is tough. I lost my father almost 4 years ago, and the above is so true. I will never trust anyone else's advice as much as I did his. I'm sorry for your loss.
     
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  4. COTiger

    COTiger 2010 Bowl Pick 'Em Champ

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    Dave,

    We've been swapping posts on line for a number of years. I've always appreciated your insight and opinions.

    Condolences on your loss, but you have a ton of great memories of your time together.
     
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  5. BRETT

    BRETT LSU FAN Staff Member

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    Sorry for your loss. Sounds like you have some great memories. God bless your father and family.
     
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  6. LSUMASTERMIND

    LSUMASTERMIND Founding Member

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    sorry for your loss, i thank him for bringing Ruth Chris to s. florida, Im a frequent guest.
    its great you have the best memories of him, that will sustain you through this tough time, trust me.
     
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  7. Pintoracer

    Pintoracer Somewhere in The Matrix

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    My condolences to you and your family.
     
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  8. $TigerFan$

    $TigerFan$ Father of CajinKid

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    Sorry for your loss, and cherish those memories.
     
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  9. LaSalleAve

    LaSalleAve when in doubt, mumble

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    Sorry for your loss, your father sounded like a great man and it seems that the state of Louisiana lost a great man as well.
     
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  10. islstl

    islstl Playoff committee is a group of great football men Staff Member

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    Hold on to those wonderful memories. It's awesome that you had the relationship you did with him.
     

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