Red: I agree with you more than most, but the working mom, in lieu of the nurturing mom, is a disaster. We would not need moms working if we had not turned mega greedy, taking what our parents gave us (the greatest generation) and wanting more. I am 100% certain I am right about this. With my oldest daughter, my wife stayed home and READ with her, constantly. With my youngest, my wife was working, and my daughter stayed with Grandma and Grandpa. I think her first words were from the theme song from "COPS""...Bad Boys what you gonna do." I have lived it and cried about it, and anguished at the result. We could not love our daughters more, but the the difference in the intellectual development between the two is phenomenal. We put men on the moon with stay at home mom's. Hell we can't put men there today to save our lives. Don't get me wrong, I am for equal ops for all and equal pay and all that, but in my heart of hearts, I KNOW the loosing moms at home is part of what destroyed this country.