The whole thing is sickening given the so-call family values platform he ran on. Good luck getting re-elected in November. There are so many who use the Christian religion to absolve themselves of any responsibility for their irresponsible behavior. It does take two to tango, and the girl is to blame as well. Her husband is initially thinking divorce, which is probably not a bad thought at all. As for Vance, it makes me ill that he thinks that all he has to do is ask for forgiveness and that makes everything ok. Shit! His wife is hanging on for a juicy meal ticket. You know that if she has any brain at all she is deeply hurt. As for the husband of the cheating bitch, Vance not only owes him an apology, but needs to try to make things right. Just saying I'm sorry we got caught is crap. An apology has three parts: "I'm sorry."; "I was wrong."; and "How can I make it right?". I went through a divorce from a long term marriage due to my wife's cheating. Given that the other party was a so-call church minister, you really don't want to ask me what I think should be done to 98% of those bastards. That said, I really don't know how you make something like that right. In the old days you could have demanded "satisfaction", and as long as you were a quicker and more accurate draw, you would get it. Our society has changed since then. So, Vance (and cheating whore), how do you make things right? How do you restore a broken husband's life? How do you right the wrong that is going to happen to their child who will now probably be a product of shared custody? I have to wonder what chance civil litigation against Vance for allowing this to happen (he was supposedly in a position of higher authority) would have in terms of making claims for disrupting the lives of a now estranged husband and a young child? I know that I am projecting my own wounds, but the bastard should be made to suffer for this in some way other than his family getting shamed and his not getting elected in November - which he won't. As it stands, he is going to leave behind a legacy of carnage - all in the name of jezsus.